Mixed Messages
by Renée Harms
And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus... Colossians 3:17
I think I might have a split personality.
I'm a little ashamed to admit to that, being a Christian and all. Especially because I think others might know.
Here's why I'm suspicious:
The other night I had a program to run at my church. As I was busy setting up chairs and getting ready, one of the church members came in a few minutes early. Now, she's always early. Never late. A very helpful person, considerate and selfless. And always gets under my skin — ever since I've known her! So my immediate greeting was not warm and friendly. Nor was I appreciative and kind when she started helping me set up. In fact, I think I may have been somewhat curt and abbreviated in conversation, perhaps even unkind.
I wasn't overly conscious of my attitude until the next person came in — someone I like, someone I get along with well. I greeted her cheerfully and started a friendly conversation with her.
Suddenly my mind flashed back to the interaction I had just moments before. Right then I clearly saw my two personalities: the real self that I like people to see — gracious, kind, Christian; and the real self that too often sneaks out into the open — selfish, prideful, rude. I was struck by the fact that while I claim to be a follower and imitator of Christ, I have to admit that I sometimes give mixed messages about who--and who's--I really am.
What does it say about us when we — as Christians — confuse people with our words and actions? How do our mixed messages affect the value and image of God? If it was my own reputation at stake, that would be one thing. But when I claim to be reflecting Christ, I am putting His reputation at stake as well.
Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers. 1 Timothy 4:16
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