A New Perspective
by Renée Harms
I used to think the parable of the prodigal son was simply a lesson of repentance, forgiveness and God's unconditional love. No doubt that message is the central theme of the story and of utmost importance-yet I am wondering if there is also something to be learned here about transformation.
While it is not stated directly in the story, when the prodigal son left home, he apparently considered his relationship with his father only one of family placement. His sole concern was getting the money "owed" him and being free from parental authority, thus going so far as to shame his family name by his actions. It is no wonder that even at his lowest point he was afraid to return home, expecting only a servant's position in the household at best. He did not yet understand his true relationship and rights as a son and brother in his family.
But on his return, his father ran to meet him, embraced him and called him his son-despite his protests of unworthiness. In that moment there was a transformation in the relationship between them. No longer was he the selfish son who had taken advantage of his father and stepped on the family name. No longer was his father the "bad guy," an authority figure who represented a barrier to experiencing freedom. And no longer was there a need to separate himself or proclaim his independence.
Is that reflective of our personal relationship with God? I will admit there have been times in my life where my view of God was that of an authoritarian, a parent stifling my freedom, a family name I did not want to carry. The truth is, God will always be my father, my Lord, an authority to be trusted and obeyed. Yet through continual experiences of His faithfulness and unfaltering love, I am coming to know Him deeply as both Father and Friend. And I consider it an honor to carry His name.
Thoughts for Discussion
What is required of a father?
How do you view your relationship with God?
What is the response of your church when a ?prodigal? comes home? How are they greeted? With open arms? With a celebration?
What is the response of your church to the missing members? Would the words, ?We have been constantly looking for you!? be true of your church family?
It's certainly something to consider.
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